A life coach has shared five “psychology tips” that she says will make you appear the most attractive person in the room — from speaking slowly to sporting wet hair, the life coach makes sure her tips will draw all eyes to you .
Coach Francesca, who lives in the US but is originally from Romania, studied psychology at City University in London and regularly makes headlines with her psychology tips, which she shares with her 1.1 million followers on TikTok.
In one of her latest videos, Francesca shared a series of tips that she says will make people find you attractive.
Francesca, a US-based Romanian life coach, shared five tips and tricks to make sure you’re the most attractive person in the room
Use your hands when speaking to appear more confident
In her video, which has been viewed more than 162,000 times, Francesca urged her followers to use their hands when speaking because it makes them appear “more confident”.
The first tip she gave to her 1.1 million+ followers was to use her hands when speaking because it makes them appear “more confident and engaging”.
She added that hand gestures make you look “more interesting.”
Speaking with your hands is said to make you appear more charismatic and implies a higher level of energy and attraction.
Research has shown that people who speak with their hands are seen as warm, passionate, energetic, and welcoming, while those who don’t use hand gestures are seen as cold and withdrawn.
Body language experts have even researched certain hand gestures that make you appear most attractive and confident.
A hand motion that people often draw in is when you face your palms up at a 45-degree angle and spread your fingers slightly apart.
This hand gesture shows that you are open and honest, which makes others more attracted to you.
Studies have also shown that speaking with your hands makes you more popular and encourages people to listen to you more.
Rock a wet hair look to boost your attractiveness
Francesca’s next tip was to “keep your hair wet.”
The Romanian life coach added: “For some reason we tend to categorize people with wet hair as more attractive.”
In recent years, the wet hair look has become something to embrace rather than something to hide from.
Whether you’re getting out of the shower or the pool, when your hair is wet, you’re sure to catch the attention of everyone around you.
Her next tip was to “keep your hair wet,” a look popularized by celebrities like Kim Kardashian (right), who said people tend to “see people with wet hair as more attractive.”
Kim Kardashian proved that the wet hair look can look alluring in the 2019 Met Gala dress that looked like it was dripping with water. and sported with soaking wet hair.
Additionally, the wet hair look can make you look more attractive as it offers both glamor and edge.
The effortless hairdo is designed to give a naturally sexy look with no little to no work. So the next time you get out of the shower, feel free to throw away the hair dryer if you want to get others’ attention.
The life coach added that speaking slowly helps appear “confident.”
Stimulate passion by speaking slowly
The life coach’s third tip was to “take your time when you’re talking.”
She added: “Take pauses and speak slowly,
“Rushing makes you look insecure while taking your time, makes you look relaxed and confident.”
Speaking slowly has many benefits including more control, feeling more relaxed and stable.
Speaking slowly not only makes it easier for your audience to process your words, but you also add weight and power to your words, making you appear more knowledgeable and confident.
Talking slowly inspires passion and, among other things, evokes more emotions, which helps you appear more attractive.
It is also said that speaking slowly persuades someone by charming them with your passion and confidence.
Francesca added that having a good time will draw people in
Smile authentically and have warm body language
“Just having fun and having a good time makes people come to you like a magnet,” said the Romanian life coach.
It is often said that you are what you attract, in other words what comes to you is a reflection of you.
When you are happy and enjoying your life, people will be attracted to you because they are inherently similar and because they want to be you.
This carefree attitude brings people to you and immediately attracts them.
When someone sees you genuinely happy, they can’t help but pull towards you in hopes of attracting the same attitude or having someone around to look to when they’re struggling to truly enjoy themselves.
Try to embrace your own sensual energy
The last tip Francesca gives her followers is “sensual energy”.
“It means being comfortable in your own skin and letting your sexual energy flow in your body.”
Having sensual energy was her final tip, which meant “let your sexual energy flow.”
Although many people think of sex when they hear the word “sensual energy,” it actually plays a role in many aspects of life, not just sex.
When you learn to accept yourself as you are, you begin to generate sensual energy.
This energy evokes strong emotions and makes you seem more confident, which helps draw people to you.
Learning how to create and use this sensual energy can help you become more creative and tackle big goals and projects.
This level of ambition and success makes people feel attracted to you and find you more attractive.
The life coach found that sensual energy can be built by accepting yourself for who you are and being truly happy.
The aura that comes with harnessing sensual energy will have everyone in the room never taking their eyes off you.
The life coach’s video received over 21,000 likes, with many users praising her for her tips while others joked that they already had those tips below
In the past, Francesca has shared helpful tips with her followers on how to get someone to look like you — which includes asking them to do you a favor, using the person’s name when speaking, giving compliments and to mirror their body language and tone of voice.
She even shared methods for secretly knowing if your crush liked you too, which included your crush not making eye contact, sliding his hand over your arm, and whether he’s standing up straight.
The life coach’s video received over 21,000 likes, with many users praising her for her tips while others joked that they already had those tips below.
“Thanks, honey,” said one user.
Another user added: “Greasy hair count?”
“Good to know,” commented another user.
“Hahaha do all these things including greasy hair,” wrote another user.