María del Refugio Abarca, Cuquita, wife of Vicente Fernández He was surprised by his comments about the interpreter’s infidelity and defended his position by saying that he had never bothered with the issue, nor was he jealous of it.
In her first statement to the media on the subject more than a month ago, they asked her how she was coping with the infidelity and she replied: “No way to take care of him, impossible. I said, ‘From the inside doors, he’s my husband; from the outside doors, I don’t know what to do.'”
And a month later he repeated his position: “Like I always said, from the gates of the ranch to here was my husband, although they criticized me, I don’t care because I wouldn’t care for a man, take care of him and go after him, he was himself, he knew where I was, he knew where I belonged, he knew so well he was never gone.”
These are other statements made to the media by Cuquita Abarca, wife of Vicente Fernández and who surprised many by their understanding and little jealousy within the relationship:
– “If he was happy, I’m happy with him.”
have you ever been jealous “No, it’s good that he lived it”
– “Don Vicente liked everything from girls to popsicles.”
– “He always did what he wanted and did it very well, even if they criticize me, I’m still in the same position”.
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Every couple lives their own agreements with infidelity
According to Robert Weiss, psychotherapist, andOne of the reasons why monogamous couples choose new partners there are personal explorations, insecurities, the desire to feel new emotions, or the selfishness of one of the parties.
Nevertheless, Infidelity does not mean the end of a partnership. “This is especially true when relationships are relatively solid, so they can go beyond cheating and its emotional implications,” the specialist explains in his article “Why Do People Cheat on Couples They Love?”.
Many Couples can also live happily in a relationship where one of the partners is related to several peoplebecause they believe that while there is no such thing as sexual fidelity, there is emotional fidelity.
Psychologist Walter Riso, in his book Dealing with Infidelity in Couples, speaks of people who have attended his counseling who accept affair agreements but exclude the affective aspect, that is, they never become emotionally attached to anyone else, and that makes them primary relationship work.
“Just think about swinger couples, whether we accept their practices or not, we need to understand that not every extramarital or extramarital relationship is infidelity.”
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