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Frau says there are only three questions you need to ask yourself to determine which one

The THREE questions to ask yourself to determine if your partner is “Right For You”: Woman shares method she learned while contemplating getting back together with an ex

  • Courtney Empey, 27, from Toronto, shared the three-step method
  • When she was undecided about an ex, one nurse shared some wisdom
  • Now she’s sharing these important questions with the world on social media

One woman who was unsure about trying again with her ex says there are just three questions you need to ask yourself to determine if your partner is right for you.

Courtney Empey, 27, from Toronto, found herself in an awkward position when her ex tried to get back at her. She just wasn’t sure if she wanted to give their relationship another chance.

And then she received some “invaluable” advice from her nurse, who told her to ask three key questions to help her decide, which are…

Courtney Empey, 27, of Toronto, revealed the three questions you need to ask yourself to determine if your partner is right for you

‘Would you be happy if that person was your child?’

“If this person dated your child, how would you feel?”

“If this person were the father of your children, how would you feel?”

After evaluating their answers, she decided to give their relationship another try and now she wants to share the method with the world and share this wisdom with others who are in the same predicament.

Courtney, a social media manager, said: “I told my nurse that my ex had come back to me and I didn’t know what to do and she said I had to ask myself these questions.

“She told me to think, ‘If that person was your kid, would you be happy?’

‘Also: ‘If this person were to date your child, how would you feel?’

‘And the last one was, ‘If this person were the father of your children, how would you feel?’

The three questions to ask yourself to show if your partner is “the one”.

If this person were your child, would you be happy?

If this person dated your child, how would you feel?

If this person were the father of your children, how would you feel?

“It took the emotion out of the decision and got me to actually check if the person met my standards.

“You then have to be honest with yourself and get back to your feelings and find out if you really love that person and if they support you and make you a better version of yourself.”

After asking herself these questions, Courtney quickly recognized her standards and the qualities she wanted in a life partner.

“I found that I want someone who’s polite and brave because that’s what I want for my kid,” she said. “So I’ve decided I want to give my ex a try, but we’re going to take it slow.

“A lot of people have tried that and have since realized that they don’t want to be with that person.

“I think it’s important to bring your feelings back in, once you’ve found out if they’re up to your standards. Because they could be perfect for you, but if you don’t love them, then he’s not the one for you.”

Courtney has helped many of her social media followers figure out if their partner is right for them by answering these three questions.

“People have come back to me and told me that either breaking up with someone or finding out that they’re actually Mr Right has helped them,” she said.

“I think that’s a great way to properly assess whether or not you want to be with this person.”